The womaninterviewed below could be criminally prosecuted and face other forms of discrimination if the wrong people found out about her relationship. They are consenting adults who aren't hurting anyone; why should they have to hide or be denied their rights?
For some, consanguineous sex, especially between a parent and their adult child (in this case, mother and son), is a taboo thrill and more on the recreational side, especially for someone who is already highly sexually adventurous. For others, it is more about an overall loving relationship, forming a "double bond" or "double love," especially if they might be classified as consanguinamorous in their overall orientation. Where this relationship will eventually settle in that spectrum remains to be seen.
***SOME OF THE DISCUSSION IS MILDLY EXPLICIT***
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FULL MARRIAGE EQUALITY: Tell us about yourself.
Maggie: I live in the south of the UK, in a suburban area. I work in administration. I have a university degree. I enjoy reading, TV, and sex.
FME: Did you raise your son? Or was he raised by someone else?
My husband and I raised our son though I would say that I was the primary care giver for his entire life.
FME: What are your ages? Do you have any other children?
I'm 39 and he's 18. I don't have any other children.
FME: How did things start between you two?
It began earlier this year. It was quite a gradual process at first, but it felt like when things happened, they happened quickly.
I noticed for a time he was checking me out; admiring my body. At first, I ignored it, but it because difficult to ignore and then I really started thinking about it, too. They were fleeting thoughts at first, but they grew longer and more intense. I found myself going to his room and masturbating on his bed thinking about him doing exactly the same and thinking about me.
I talked to a couple of other mothers* who helped me feel better about my thoughts.
In the end, I suppose the big moment came when I was home alone. I asked my son to come home and he found me in my room, naked. We talked a little, but things happened very quickly and we had sex for the first time there in my bed. It was like nothing else I've ever experienced in my life.
FME: And it's still good?
The sex is....there are no words to describe it. My son makes me feel like a totally new woman and a complete mother. I've had the biggest orgasms of my life thanks to him. It's an addiction.
FME: Does anyone in your life know?
No. We've managed to keep our relationship secret so far and I'm hoping it stays that way.
FME: Does it feel like family-with-benefits or more like a marriage, or what?
I'm not sure how to define the relationship. I only think of of it as "I am my son's woman."
FME: Before you noticed he was checking you out, had you ever thought this sort of thing was possible? Or would the thought have been a total turnoff?
I'd never given much thought to this topic at all and I think before I would have been disgusted.
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There you have it. They are consenting adults who aren't hurting anyone and yet they have to keep their relationship a secret or face discrimination and denial of their rights simply for loving each other
Why should they be denied their rights? There’s no good reason.We need to recognize that all adults should be free to be with any and all consenting adults as they mutually consent, and part of doing that is adopting relationship rights for all, including full marriage equality sooner rather than later. People are being hurt because of a denial of their basic human rights to love each other freely.
You can read other interviews I have done here.
If you are in a relationship like this and are looking for help or others you can talk with, read this.
If you want to be interviewed about your "forbidden" relationship, connect with me by checking under the "Get Connected" tab there at the top of the page.
If you know someone who is in a relationship like this, please read this.
Thank you to Maggie for doing this interview! We wish you well in your consanguinamorous intergenerational relationship.
*Please be warned that these three links are NOT SAFE FOR WORK. Maggie's Tumblr is here, and the women who helped her have Tumblr blogs here and here.
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